Conrad’s Incantation

Conrad is an amazing guy from our workshop this weekend. His incantation (an affirmation… on steroids!!) is testimony to Conrad’s intention for his life and an inspirational outcome from the workshop.

My Power Incantation, by Conrad van Pruijssen

My name is Connector Conrad

I stand for INTIMACY
That stands for IN TO ME YOU SEE
… the belief that you too, can achieve everything that you dream about.

I stands for
Intention to do the best I can everyday
N stands for
Now I know how I can give and receive love
T stands for
Train other people to give and receive
O stands for
Opportunities are everywhere I look
M stands for
More then I need, is what I will give away to others
E stands for
Everyday I do things that make me grow
Y stands for
Youth is for me the most precious thing on earth
O stands for
Ongoing to give the lessons I learned to others
U stands for
Unique I am to …
S stands for
Share
E stands for
Endless
E stands for
Energy

I know that intention gives me the power to make reality from the dreams that I believe in.

They Felt The Fear And Did It…

Wow, Di and I just finished hosting another ‘Feel The Fear And Do It Anyway®’ workshop.

We did not think it was possible… they just keep getting better. Such an amazing group of participants. They bared their souls, laughed, cried, hugged and gave so much love and support to themselves and each other.

The age range of the participants was 19 to 40 (43 if you include me    It was incredible the diversity of fears that were identified, the source of these fears and then the powerful affirmations, incantations (positive affirmations… on steroids!!) and actions that were committed to. All the incantations moved us to tears. One incantation in particular we just have to share with you – from an amazing guy, 37, from Holland, he is already a coach and has been working on himself for just over a year – and it showed. He was an inspiration to us all. We will share his incantation with you in the next post on this blog.

In the meantime, below is the feedback that we received. If you know someone who is struggling to overcome their fears in the form of guilt, anxiety, worry, jealousy, hatred, anger, even shame and depression – please let them know that help is available, in the form of our safe and effective workshop. Here’s the highlights of the feedback (which was all very positive):

Great atmosphere and food conducive to learning

Inspirational energy and sharing

Stepping out of my comfort zone will make the biggest difference to my life

I am going to fill my actions with intention and love

Fantastic insights

The workshop exceeded my expectations

An inspirational journey within myself

I wish I had brought my girlfriend – I will next time

I’m now going to take responsibility and not give my power to others

I am empowered to make positive changes to my ‘grid of life’

I am saying YES to the universe

The most powerful workshop ever – it has been life changing for me. Truly inspirational. Thank you from my heart xxx.

Thank you. I really feel that you have go me out of an unrealistic, dark place! I now realise that life is out there for me. I am going to grab every opportunity. I love you guys. xxx

There is currently one place available on out next ‘Feel The Fear…’ workshop (21-22 March).  For more dates – click here. We also have our first FTF workshop for West Midlands Local Government employees  – a one day event on 28th April – click here for the West Midlands Training website for more details.  If you know any local government employees in the West Midlands, please make them aware of this opportunity, as it won’t cost them a penny – their employer pays).

Shhhh! The Real Secret to ‘The Secret’

There is a lot of hype around at the moment on this subject and lots of myths about ‘The Secret’ to mastering Attraction. THERE IS NO SECRET !

We are all masters of the Law of Attraction AND the trouble is we mainly focus on what we don’t want – this proves to be a very poor strategy for life for most of us!

Andrew says: “The greatest lesson that I was ever taught by my coach, is that for the first 40 years of my life, I attracted everything – all my results and outcomes… good, bad and indifferent. I am indeed a master of the Law of Attraction. Now, there was not a lot of bad stuff, a heck of a lot of mediocrity and not enough of the good and amazing stuff. Once I understood this, in a language that I could relate to and in a way that my logic could not refute – I realised that only I had responsibility for my life and my outcomes, no-one and no-thing else, just me. This can seem a little daunting – it is also incredibly liberating, especially when you learn how you have manifested until now… And how by changing what you focus on and utilising tools such as incantations, visionboards, visualisation and feelingisation, you can have more of what you want in life“

Since 2005, Andrew has completely transformed his life, left a dead-end career, manifested an incredible job working at one of the foremost personal development and relationship retreats, attracted his soul mate and returned to the UK to start a new business with Diane, said soul mate.

Andrew continues… “in my twenties, my strategy for life was based on knowing what I did not want. I thought I was quite clever to know this. I thought it gave me a good direction in life. I perceived that it put me ahead of some of my peers who did not seem to know what they wanted. I realise now, looking back, that this strategy got me increasingly mediocre results. Now I understand that my ‘away from’ motivations lacked conviction, authenticity and alignment to my true self.“

So the first key to mastering the Law of Attraction is to:

KNOW YOURSELF AND WHAT YOU WANT

How do you achieve that? There is no quick and simple answer. Knowing yourself comprises knowing your values and their underlying motivations (including towards and away from motivations). These underlying motivations are closely associated with your beliefs (both limiting and empowering, plus associated rules). Then there is understanding how you meet your basic human needs (of which there are four) and to what extent you associate to the two other ‘higher needs’.

Your values, needs, beliefs/rules and abilities make up your internal identity. There are three levels to identity:

(i) who you truly are (which is hidden from most of us).
(ii) how we and our ego like to portray ‘us’ to ourselves – internally.
(iii) how we and our ego portray ourselves to the outside world.

So to manifest what you truly desire in life using a pure Power of Intention, you need to cut through the layers of falsehood and find the real you.

This important first step takes time and also requires you to truly LOVE YOURSELF, ACCEPT YOURSELF and let go of emotional baggage.

From this place of authenticity you can start to attract abundance in all its richness of form.

Then the second key to mastering the Law of Attraction is to:

FIND YOUR TRUE SENSE OF DIRECTION AND PURPOSE

Through finding and aligning to your core values, you can develop a powerful purpose in life and a sense of direction that steers you towards success rather than away from fear or limiting beliefs. You can create a magical vision for your life, framed by gradtitude, joy and appreciation.

The third and final key to mastering the Law of Attraction is to:

MASTER THE TOOLS OF ATTRACTION AND INTENTION

This goes way beyond simply asking for and visualising your outcomes.

It is about feeling-isation. The Power of Intention comes from the intensity, accuracy and consistency of your focus/attention multiplied by the level of desire that you have multiplied by the amount energy that you give to the intention.

Power of Intention = Desire x Attention x Energy

Your Power of Intention, your level of desire and your energy will all be massively increased by using tools like:

• Values Elicitation – our own tool to help you to identify your core values and to work on making them all positive towards values turning around any limiting beliefs and disempowering rules.
• On-Purpose’ our own service to help you to determine your authentic purpose and direction in life.
  Incantations (powerful statements that you chant) encapsulating your values, vision and purpose, plus any specific goals, desires and outcomes.
• Visionboards – your dreams captured as inspiring images.
• Incantations
• Guided-visualisation – hypnotherapy CDs produced for you by Diane, to listen to time and again, re-wiring your subconscious to totally align it with your conscious desires and intentions.

Andy & Di’s VisionBoards

Examples of many of these Cosmic Attraction tools are freely available as downloads from our publications storefront: http://www.lulu.com/cosmicattraction

There are many things that you can do to raise your energy and lift your emotions, so that you start to eminate and attract better experiences and opportunities in to your life. Click here for a checklist of the many things that you can easily incorporate into a daily/weekly routine in order to keep your energy high. Although there are lots of recommendations on this list, many of them are either simple changes or ommissions that you can make from your routine.

What other help is available? We also provide:

• Law of Attraction Coaching
• Workshops
  • Overcoming fear and limiting beliefs
  • Cosmic Ordering
  • Manifesting your ultimate relationship
• Relationship Coaching and Mentoring, 1:1 and 2:2 for couples
• Guidance on creating your own Visionboard and Incantation
• Personalised hypnotherapy CDs/MP3s
• Values & Needs coaching and tools
• Purpose coaching

For more information on Cosmic Attraction, go to our web site http://www.cosmic-attraction.com

For more information on enjoying Success in Love and Relationships, go to our web site: http://www.executive-relationship-coaching.co.uk